Good News for a change, The Son finally got his DES Phone Interview and was FINALLY Approved for his AHCCCS Medicaid Health Insurance to continue, and Nutritional Assistance for part of January, all of February and all of March. He'd initially applied back in December but they only went back to Mid-January for a partial Month's Approval of $48 worth of Food for January, and full Benefits for February and March. Then in April, if he can prove he did 20 Hours of even Volunteer Work, he'll get Approved for that Month too. Part Time or Day Work Jobs Qualify too if he's unable to still find Full Time Employment.
I guess they know Jobs are actually scarce for Full Time Work, or Livable Wages, in spite of the Lies coming out of this White House, claiming the Economy is great. Only if you're part of the Oligarchy, or already Affluent, is it great at all in actuality. Average Working Aged Americans and Retirees are hurting. Now if he does any Work at all, whether he gets Paid or not, he'll get a Note or Letter saying he did the Work to verify he's in compliance. It's better than nothing and helps with our limited income Budget, coz we've been Feeding them all whether they got Nutritional Assistance or not. I'm not having Family go Hungry and not eat.
He was relieved that they actually did his Phone Interview Earlier than the projected Date of Mid-March, he's been so frustrated and worried they wouldn't call at all and he'd have to start over AGAIN. He's been Laid Off since before Thanksgiving and gotten no Assistance, so if he didn't have us he would have had close to Four Months of Nothing to sustain him and Nowhere to even Live/have Shelter except the Streets. Being he was always a hard Working Man who was an asset to any Employer he's ever had, and Worked since he was 14 Years Old, that's very disheartening that all that doesn't even matter anymore. He sees no Future.
It was Interesting, he got a good Male Caseworker who looked at all he'd been providing since December and leveled with him saying, this is ridiculous that they made you provide all this, insisting it's relevant, none of it is necessary!!! Just goes to show you it depends on the Luck of the Draw if you get a good Caseworker that knows what they're doing and actually wants to help Clients, or one just making shit up or hasn't got a Clue what they actually Need or don't Need to process your Application appropriately to Qualify you!!!!! The Son just told him they kept telling him each Month there was more "Needed", so, he just kept providing what they asked for and demanded was necessary, what else could he do? He appreciated this Caseworker being so forthright and Honest.
In fact, the Caseworker told him that since he'd Qualified for the Free Phone, they do all the same checks to see if you Qualify or not, so if you Qualified for that, you definitely Qualify for DES Benefits!!! The Free Phone Gal had The Son Qualified and with a Free Working Phone in about a 5 Minute Process. Now, if that Program can be that efficient, so could DES as well if they wanted to be and were being run and staffed appropriately, Right? Anyway, at least now the grueling Gauntlet for him to get Food Assistance is over until April now. I know that's a Load Off for him coz he felt like he was putting added strain on me to stretch things even further after he got Laid Off and was bringing nothing in. Hey, I just throw more Water in the Beans. *Winks*
The Daughter is still Working on that Guy's Ranch, they've been exercising his Horses. I don't know if he's Selling the Horses along with the Property, or separately? But she's used to taking Care of Friends Horses in Mexico. Many had Beachfront Businesses giving Horse Rides on the Beach to Tourists. And she did Work for Friends with Beachfront Properties who Owned their own Businesses and she often took care of their Homes and their Animals, when they were Traveling and away too. This Rancher has several Beautiful Horses. Apparently she doesn't mind staying out there, the Property has lots of pristine Acreage.
It cuts me a break, one less Bell to Answer, one less Egg to fry while she's living out there and helping that Rancher out. Plus, the Boyfriend has a place to stay out there apparently too on that Guy's Ranch for now. Since, he couldn't stay here anymore and I don't know what happened between he and his Family where he had been Living in a Property they Owned? I think his extended Family Buy Fixer-Upper Properties and he's lived in them in exchanged for Fixing them up for them, he is quite an adept Handyman, he did a lot of Property Improvements here for us in exchange for spending so much time here.
I just didn't want him presuming to "Live" here, especially since as a Couple, too much Drama between them. But, I did appreciate all the Work on our Property he was always doing, he isn't a Lazy Guy, he always busied himself doing something productive in spite of his advanced Illness, so I could respect that about him. I just didn't like how he treated our Daughter and Behavior Tolerated is Behavior Accepted and I'd told him, NOT Acceptable, and never will be to me. Even if it is to her... it wasn't happening here at our Home. Period. It was causing too much Conflict and Stress. We're all very protective of her.
I took The Man to do some Environmental Cleanup in the Park closest to where the Granddaughter Works, it's 80 Degrees and Beautiful Outside, it gave him some good Exercise again. There was a fair amount of Aluminum Cans, it's a popular Skater Park with Skateboarding Section, and has lots for Kids of all Ages to do, a Splash Pad, Playgrounds, BBQ's and Gazebos for Parties and Picnics, Basketball Court, Sitting Benches, Restrooms, Soccer Field, and also has Exercise Stations for people doing Workouts, with Equipment much like in a Gym, heavy duty for Outdoor Weather. So, even if you couldn't afford a Gym Membership, you could go to that Park and Workout for nothing. It used to have a running Manmade Stream running thru it with Bridges, but that's been Dry for Years now.
I tried to call the 1-800 Number for New Mexico Medicaid that Google had given Online as their Point of Contact, turns out it's a Clearinghouse for Claims. The Paperwork I got from the Hospital had given a secondary NM Number so I called that one, got a Bot that just repeated the same worthless information and then would hang up on you. So, a Dead End, no wonder the Hospital Claims Dept. is calling us, they probably got no further either? I don't know how else I could be Helpful coz I am not from New Mexico and this isn't my Medicaid Insurance. The Grandson isn't Well enuf to pursue this on his own... so... I guess they won't get Paid??? I want to get him Signed Up for Arizona AHCCCS Medicaid and look into Qualifying him for SSI too, it will all be an Ordeal, not my 1st Rodeo with those Agencies/Systems. Are we having Fun yet? *Smiles* The Young Prince called the Caseworker back at the Hospital and now they're going to help him get on Arizona AHCCCS Medicaid instead. *Whew*
The Young Prince is to the place he just doesn't Care one way or another, he said if he ends up Institutionalized coz they Neglect him at his Point of Need, he'll just be a LOT more Expensive to The System then. He's Right. Pay now or Pay MORE later when you don't Care for your most Vulnerable of Society, including your Young, your Elderly, your Disabled, your Poor. I find it most Ironic that the Christian Nationalist Movement wants to insist America is and should be a Christian Nation of their Extreme Religious Brand. Yet, are showing themselves to be and are the most Unchristian, Ungodly, least Charitable, most Biased, least Inclusive, Inhumane Group I Believe we have among us in this Nation. It's just Bad Religion and Hypocrisy at it's Worst.
Of coarse the World is getting to see the very Worst of America right now and our Reputation will never be the same again Globally. Trust broken is usually Lost Forever. I haven't had The News on all day tho' and don't plan to put it on either, I can only absorb so much of this fuckery at a time, it's all so toxic and alarming. Princess T took me out for Dinner after she got off Work. She said that Timmy and Matthew took her to Sedona, Flagstaff and Jerome during her Days off and it was so much Fun she'd like to take me up to Jerome and rent one of the Historic Hotel Rooms for us. But, she feels Guilty coz what to do with Grandpa, she doesn't want to hurt his Feelings but last time we went to Jerome he barely left the Hotel Room and was anxious to just go Home. I know The Son would look after him for us, so we'll explore that Option and just tell him we're having a Girl's Weekend Out if we do go and do that.
She said tho' it was Fun it was too many places, but her Gay Boy Posse isn't as inclined to stay in one place and just linger enjoying it like she and I enjoy doing together. I'd like to go back to Jerome, it's the Disneyland of Funky Places and I just Love that little Ghost Town turned Tourist Attraction. I think I've mentioned it before but when the Historic Brothel there "The House Of Joy" Building was put up For Sale I did consider Buying it. But, Jerome is too remote to have someone as Medically compromised as The Man living there full time, and perhaps living there would be way different than going on short Vacay Weekends there too... so I didn't think it would be a Wise Purchase. I would have totally Loved owning the place tho'.
Back in the 1970's I wanted to Buy Property there and my Parents talked me out of it. Back then a lot of Hippies and Artists lived there, it had a real Outsider Community of Unconventional folks Buying the Historic Properties and resurrecting it from being a Ghost Town to being an Artsy Destination. The Property I considered at that time is still there, it's an Old Hotel and said to be Haunted, it looks better now than it did in the 1970's when it needed a lot more Restoration. Anyway, a nice Weekend in Jerome with my Granddaughter, her covering all expenses, sounds like a really good time to me. We enjoy each other's company and enjoy doing the same things together, she's a very Old Soul for a 20 Year Old and we've always been Close and doing everything together, so she's always been my little Sidekick. She says I'm more Fun than most people her Age and there's never a chance of Drama with me either. *LOL*
The last of my minor E-Bay Orders arrived, every Seller has been so prompt and the Product has been better than it even looked in the Pixs of them. I wanted some larger XXL T-Shirts coz it's hard to find that Size in Graphics I like and at Retail Stores they charge so much now and I just won't pay that much for a T-Shirt. Most Stores only go up to XL and it's a Chinese XL and won't fit over my bodacious Girls. *LOL and Le Sigh* But, Online, most of these Sellers I assumed were Selling Used Tees and when they arrive, they are Brand New "Liquid Blue" Brand {a Fav and usually madly expensive}, at great Prices. Sure, some don't ship for Free, tho' some do, still, I'm Saving a lot by getting them from E-Bay Sellers and getting exactly what I want in the Size I prefer, and Delivered to my Door... Win-Win. Color me Happy and I've found some elusive Tees that are Vintage and I just never would have found Locally... or at the Price I only Paid.
RV Place so I'll get it done and go to where I bought the 5th Wheel. We spoke pleasantly with Mando and he gave me a big sincere Hug, he really Cares about us and knows why I was intolerant of his Behavior towards my Two Loved Ones he didn't treat with the Kindness he always displays for us Elders. He knows I'll never tolerate such behavior here and that he and her are Grown and their Relationship is their Business as to what each of them is willing to Tolerate with each other... just... NOT HERE. I don't know that anyone else would have either of them in a long term Relationship, so perhaps that's the co-dependent Appeal, I dunno? I think they're both afraid of not being in a Relationship and Alone?
I thought he might require Stitches, but he just put a Bandaide over it on the Corner of his one Eyebrow after he managed to get the Bleeding stopped. Head Wounds Bleed profusely so it looked worse than it was and I freaked out a bit when he first came inside and The Man had to convince me it wasn't a Bad Injury actually. But, he will likely have a huge Bruise and Bump, probably a Black Eye too. He has a Head like a Mountain Goat tho', so, he'll be Fine. We had the Speech again about not drinking so much coz he knows how I Feel about that. Yes, he's an Alcoholic, but mostly he manages consumption around me and at our Home coz he knows it's a huge Trigger for me... due to 1st Marriage to his Biological Father. Drunk Indigenous are never great to be around and why I don't Drink. I'm a Crazy Indian on the Fire Water and I'll Fight anyone when under the Influence.
Actually, no Drunk is great to be around, but some Fire Water in someone of Indian Ancestry is Wicked... always. Yet, here we are with Two Adult Children who became Alcoholics in spite of me telling them all their lives not to and how not to become one in Two Simple Words: DON'T DRINK. The Grandson drinks but only mebbe some Alcohol once every other Weekend and Moderates it coz he gets Crazy too... and his Sober Crazy is intense enuf. Princess T confessed she tried it, didn't Like it, and won't ever Drink, which is good, one less potential Alcoholic in the Family to Deal with then. *Whew* Above is a Flashback of Booth #317 we used to have and my Friend Rhonda had spent a lot of Money Remodeling and then we got the Booth from her and I Loved that Booth, which I Shared with Princess T.
Then one Day the Mother/Daughter duo were in there and we got to see them... and she then deadpanned, Well, if anyone would even Pay Twenty Dollar... I'd be Surprised Gramma!!! Both Obesely Fat, Frumpy, Greasy Hair, Dentally Challenged, Trailer Trash looking White Women... now the Booth makes total Sense to us. *Bwahahaha and Shudder* As The Son would say, if he saw them, Damn, I wouldn't Touch that with someone else's Dick!!! *LMAOROTF* I'm not being Kind in my description, I'm being accurate and highly biased coz they destroyed our Beautiful Booth and it was very upsetting. I know, I know, we gave it up so shouldn't Care what they did to it, but when someone ruins what was a very lovely piece of Real Estate, it always disturbs me and I'm like, WHY?! Of coarse, someone with No Taste couldn't even Buy some... so, there's THAT aspect of being permanently Tasteless and Culturally Deprived as their Natural way of Being.
They look like they could be going out of Business, coz I don't even know who'd Buy the hideous Clothing they hawk in that Ugly Booth they've created? I mean even if you're completely Hood and Ghetto, you're not wearing any of that shit. It's beyond "The People Of Wal-Mart" a spectacle, and that's hard to Top. So, my Hope is, they move out and whoever inherits that Booth does a makeover, coz I couldn't Imagine any other Vendor leaving it that way? We once had a Vendor who 1980's Sponge Painted her Booth in hideous hues, and put up those Chicken/Rooster Wallpaper Borders, and that was the only one probably more hideous than what these Vendor have done. *LOL* She too went out of Business, not at all Surprising, her Merch matched the Booth and I don't think anyone wants to bring any of that Back from the Archives of Bad Period Taste??? *LMAO*
I like Kitsch, so don't get me Wrong, I can exhibit some intentional Bad Taste and Tacky affinities myself to some Stuff. *Winks* My Mom used to shake her Head and said I must have gotten that proclivity from our Dad, coz it was Reservation Indian Style... and I'd Laugh, coz, she could be Right. Dad Loved his Kitsch and Weird Objects and a Style that was definitely not Polite White Society Traditional. He liked his Tribal Aesthetic, but did mingle it with some outrageous over-the-top Kitschy stuff that was delightful and my Mom wouldn't allow in the Home. So, he only got to go Hog Wild with it as Decor after they Divorced and it always made me Smile. I mean, some of it was even Over-The-Top for me!!! And my Mom was like Carmen Miranda on Steroids, so it was even Over-The-Top for her Bohemian Sensibilities, which weren't your Garden Variety 1950's Housewife Stepford Wives Aesthetic either. *Smiles* My Parents were a Trip and not your Garden Variety Family.
So, you can be a Real Weirdo and I'll totally Admire that in you, and
Dig it, but, if you're just Trashy and nasty dirty looking in a low life Tasteless way... not so much. Anyway... Moving On... about my Booth and Vendor Critiques that bother me and I know I'm being totally Judgmental about. *Bwahahahaa* The Son's Nutritional Assistance for Jan and Feb hit his Card, so I'll be taking him to the Grocery Store to pick up what he thinks we still Need. I didn't have much of a Grocery Budget for this Month and already blew thru it for March... so he wanted to Help out. Granted, I am prepared for the Apocalypse really and did a sort of Pandemic Preparedness for the Pantry and Freezer.
Well, I was schmoozing with the Young People working at the place we bought the 5th Wheel from so they comped me a Key and made it in about 5 Minutes, so, we're Good now. *smiles* All of them wanna start living Commune Style and trying to talk their Aging Parents into doing what we're doing so all Generations can live on the same Land, go at least semi-off-the-grid and share expenses in this failing Economy. It is the way of the Future coz things are already unaffordable for the Young and they don't have Retirements or Social Security to rely on in their Old Age so don't know how that will all play out either? So most are already re-imagining their Future a different kind of "American Dream" way so it won't turn out to be the "American Nightmare" for them.
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Having Fun in the Arizona Desert... well, sorta... if you re-define Fun {Winks}... Dawn... The Bohemian





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